BEFRIENDED
Befriended provides a range of services aimed at combating loneliness and isolation amongst older people living in Mid Sussex. These include face to face befriending, telephone befriending, befriended buddies, bereavement support, chaplaincy, exercise classes, social activities and events.
Objects
1)TO ADVANCE THE CHRISTIAN FAITH; AND2)TO PROMOTE SOCIAL INCLUSION FOR THE PUBLIC BENEFIT BY PREVENTING PEOPLE FROM BECOMING SOCIALLY EXCLUDED, RELIEVING THE NEEDS OF THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE SOCIALLY EXCLUDED AND ASSISTING THEM TO INTEGRATE INTO SOCIETY THROUGH A BEFRIENDING / CARE SERVICE.FOR THE PURPOSE OF THIS CLAUSE ‘SOCIALLY EXCLUDED’ MEANS BEING EXCLUDED FROM SOCIETY, OR PARTS OF SOCIETY, AS A RESULT OF ONE OF MORE OF THE FOLLOWING FACTORS: UNEMPLOYMENT; FINANCIAL HARDSHIP; YOUTH OR OLD AGE; ILL HEALTH (PHYSICAL OR MENTAL); SUBSTANCE ABUSE OR DEPENDENCY INCLUDING ALCOHOL AND DRUGS; DISCRIMINATION ON THE GROUNDS OF SEX, RACE, DISABILITY, ETHNIC ORIGIN, RELIGION, BELIEF, CREED, SEXUAL ORIENTATION OR GENDER RE-ASSIGNMENT; POOR EDUCATIONAL OR SKILLS ATTAINMENT; RELATIONSHIP AND FAMILY BREAKDOWN; POOR HOUSING (THAT IS HOUSING THAT DOES NOT MEET BASIC HABITABLE STANDARDS; CRIME (EITHER AS A VICTIM OF CRIME OR AS AN OFFENDER REHABILITATING INTO SOCIETY).
Financial health, per its FY2025 accounts
The accounts state that the charity holds total net assets of £104,216, comprising unrestricted funds of £104,216 and restricted funds of £0. The trustees report that the charity remains in a stable financial position supported by grants, donations, and community fundraising.
What the accounts disclose
“Gail Millar, a trustee, received remuneration of £51,549 as CEO of the charity” — page 24
“Gail Millar, a trustee, received remuneration of £51,549 as CEO of the charity (2024: £45,476) and benefits in kind in the form of pension payments of £3,605 (2024: £1,364).” — page 24
“Gail Millar, a trustee, received remuneration of £51,549 as CEO of the charity (2024: £45,476) and benefits in kind in the form of pension payments of £3,605 (2024: £1,364). The only other payments made to the trustees, or any person connected with them, consisted of reimbursements of expenditure incurred on behalf of the charity in furthering the charity's objects.” — page 24
Policies the charity declares
- Financial reserves policy and procedures
- Safeguarding policy and procedures
- Safeguarding vulnerable beneficiaries
- Serious incident reporting policy and procedures
From the charity’s annual return (Part A, self-declared)
Self-declared on the annual return for the financial year ending 30/09/2025
- Volunteers: 120
- Government income: £3,000 — grants £3,000 (1); 2% of the £155,418 total gross income on the same return
- Trustee benefits, answered Yes to: any trustee benefit; other trustee benefit
Self-declared on the annual return for the financial year ending 30/09/2024
- Volunteers: 100
- Government income: £250 — grants £250 (1); under 1% of the £87,821 total gross income on the same return
- Trustee benefits, answered Yes to: any trustee benefit; other trustee benefit
Self-declared on the annual return for the financial year ending 30/09/2023
- Volunteers: 50
- Trustee benefits, answered Yes to: any trustee benefit; payments to trustees for services to the charity; other trustee benefit
Funders the charity credits
- Holy Trinity Church Hurstpierpoint
- St Andrew’s Church
- Brighton College Prep Handcross
- Parkers car and Truck Rental
Trustees
- George Baxterchair
- David Chewter
- Emma Lambert
- GAIL MILLAR
- Julia Crook
- Patricia Johns
- Rev William Kemp
- Susan Fleet
Income and spending
| Financial year end | Income | Spending |
|---|---|---|
| 30/09/2025 | £155k | £106k |
| 30/09/2024 | £88k | £83k |
| 30/09/2023 | £86k | £61k |
| 30/09/2022 | £31k | £40k |
| 30/09/2021 | £31k | £24k |
Common questions
Is BEFRIENDED financially healthy?
Per its FY2025 accounts: The accounts state that the charity holds total net assets of £104,216, comprising unrestricted funds of £104,216 and restricted funds of £0. The trustees report that the charity remains in a stable financial position supported by grants, donations, and community fundraising. Its FY2025 accounts were independently examined.
What does the highest-paid employee of BEFRIENDED earn?
Per its FY2025 accounts, the highest-paid employee was in the £51,549 band.
Who funds BEFRIENDED?
Funders whose own accounts filings name BEFRIENDED as a grant recipient include THE ALLEN LANE FOUNDATION, THE PAROCHIAL CHURCH COUNCIL OF THE ECCLESIASTICAL PARISH OF HOLY TRINITY, HURSTPIERPOINT, BARCHESTER HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION, THE PAROCHIAL CHURCH COUNCIL OF THE ECCLESIASTICAL PARISH OF ST MARY, BALCOMBE.
Shared trustees with funders
- GAIL MILLAR — trustee here and at THE PAROCHIAL CHURCH COUNCIL OF THE ECCLESIASTICAL PARISH OF HOLY TRINITY, HURSTPIERPOINT
- Patricia Johns — trustee here and at THE PAROCHIAL CHURCH COUNCIL OF THE ECCLESIASTICAL PARISH OF HOLY TRINITY, HURSTPIERPOINT
Known funders
| Funder | Year | Amount | Purpose (as stated by the funder) |
|---|---|---|---|
| THE ALLEN LANE FOUNDATION | FY2022 | £7k | |
| THE PAROCHIAL CHURCH COUNCIL OF THE ECCLESIASTICAL PARISH OF HOLY TRINITY, HURSTPIERPOINT | FY2025 | £3k | Missionary and charitable giving |
| BARCHESTER HEALTHCARE FOUNDATION | FY2025 | £3k | Programme of activities for charity focused on improving isolation and loneliness for older people. |
| THE PAROCHIAL CHURCH COUNCIL OF THE ECCLESIASTICAL PARISH OF ST MARY, BALCOMBE | FY2023 | £600 |
Funders of similar charities
| Funder | Similar charities funded | Amount to them |
|---|---|---|
| THE MCCARTHY & STONE CHARITABLE FOUNDATION | 2 | £16k |
| THE FORRESTER FAMILY TRUST | 2 | £10k |
| CHARITY OF SIR RICHARD WHITTINGTON | 1 | £103k |
| GOODNEWS EVANGELICAL MISSION | 1 | £102k |
| THE EARL OF NORTHAMPTON'S CHARITY | 1 | £60k |
| VOLUNTARY ACTION ROTHERHAM | 1 | £30k |
| THE FRANCIS WINHAM FOUNDATION | 1 | £26k |
| THE LAWSON TRUST CIO | 1 | £20k |
Charities like this
- SUFFOLK BEFRIENDING SCHEME FOR PEOPLE WITH LEARNING DISABILITIES
- B:FRIEND
- TIME TO TALK BEFRIENDING
- BEfriend
- THE HALLIWELL BEFRIENDING SERVICE
- THE FRIENDSHIP CIRCLE (UK)
Side by side with its peers
| Charity | Income | Top pay band | Staff >£60k | Reserves vs policy | Fundraising cost | Going concern |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| BEFRIENDED | £155k | £51,549 | 0 | unclear | — | no doubt |
| SUFFOLK BEFRIENDING SCHEME FOR PEOPLE WITH LEARNING DISABILITIES | £437k | — | 0 | unclear | — | no doubt |
| B:FRIEND | £413k | — | 0 | above | — | no doubt |
| TIME TO TALK BEFRIENDING | £472k | — | 0 | unclear | — | no doubt |
| BEfriend | £419k | — | 0 | unclear | — | not going concern |
| THE HALLIWELL BEFRIENDING SERVICE | £77k | — | 0 | unclear | — | no doubt |