We Stand with Families
We Stand provides specialist emotional, practical and legal support to non-abusing parents and carers of children who have been sexually abused. By strengthening the protective capacity of the non abusing parent, we help reduce risk, improve safety and stability contribute to long-term recovery and wellbeing and improve outcomes for sexually abused children and their families.
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TO RELIEVE THE DISTRESS SUFFERED BY MOTHERS AND LEGAL GUARDIANS WHOSE CHILDREN HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED, PARTICULARLY BUT NOT EXCLUSIVELY THOSE LIVING IN THE LONDON BOROUGH OF GREENWICH
Financial health, per its FY2025 accounts
The accounts state that unrestricted reserves were £90,262, which the trustees note was 'only just below' their stated policy target of three months of operating expenses. The charity reported a net outgoing of resources for the year, resulting in a decrease in total funds from £164,984 to £90,777, and explicitly acknowledges reliance on Trusts and Foundations as a significant risk to future sustainability.
What the accounts disclose
“At the end of 2024/5, our unrestricted reserves were £90,262. This was only just below our target of 3 months of all costs”
Policies the charity declares
- Bullying and harassment policy and procedures
- Complaints handling
- Complaints policy and procedures
- Conflicting interests
- Engaging external speakers at charity events policy and procedures
- Financial reserves policy and procedures
- Internal charity financial controls policy and procedures
- Internal risk management policy and procedures
- Paying staff
- Risk management
- Safeguarding policy and procedures
- Safeguarding vulnerable beneficiaries
- Serious incident reporting policy and procedures
- Social media policy and procedures
- Trustee conflicts of interest policy and procedures
- Trustee expenses policy and procedures
- Volunteer management
From the charity’s annual return (Part A, self-declared)
Self-declared on the annual return for the financial year ending 31/03/2025
- Volunteers: 35
- Government income: £62,289 — grants £62,289 (1); 18% of the £353,992 total gross income on the same return
Self-declared on the annual return for the financial year ending 31/03/2024
- Volunteers: 35
- Government income: £65,190 — grants £65,190 (1); 13% of the £517,049 total gross income on the same return
Self-declared on the annual return for the financial year ending 31/03/2023
- Volunteers: 40
Structured financials (annual return, FY ending 31/03/2024)
Register events
- Received assets from another charity (16/06/2011)
Trustees
- Alexia Awanchair
- Andrew Abboud
- Anne-Marie Lawrence
- Benjamin Joshua Ravenhill Morgan
- David Richards
- Laura Daniella Chambers
- Miguelle James
- Mohammad Abdurraheem Gani Comrie
- Nelson Alfonso
Income and spending
| Financial year end | Income | Spending |
|---|---|---|
| 31/03/2025 | £354k | £428k |
| 31/03/2024 | £517k | £469k |
| 31/03/2023 | £297k | £573k |
| 31/03/2022 | £616k | £488k |
| 31/03/2021 | £544k | £425k |
Common questions
Is We Stand with Families financially healthy?
Per its FY2025 accounts: The accounts state that unrestricted reserves were £90,262, which the trustees note was 'only just below' their stated policy target of three months of operating expenses. The charity reported a net outgoing of resources for the year, resulting in a decrease in total funds from £164,984 to £90,777, and explicitly acknowledges reliance on Trusts and Foundations as a significant risk to future sustainability. Its FY2025 accounts were independently examined.
Who funds We Stand with Families?
Funders whose own accounts filings name We Stand with Families as a grant recipient include THE DULVERTON TRUST, SIR JULES THORN CHARITABLE TRUST.
Known funders
| Funder | Year | Amount | Purpose (as stated by the funder) |
|---|---|---|---|
| THE DULVERTON TRUST | FY2025 | £30k | Parent training and Parent-Child Relational Play |
| SIR JULES THORN CHARITABLE TRUST | FY2025 | £3k | Ann Rylands Small Donations Programme |
Government & lottery funding
| Funder | Date | Amount | Purpose |
|---|---|---|---|
| The National Lottery Community Fund | 29/09/2025 | £18k | Wellness Workshops for Parents & Carers of Sexually Abused Children |
| UK government | 01/08/2023 | £98k | Rape and Sexual Abuse Support Fund |
| City Bridge Foundation | 13/06/2023 | £85k | Grant to We Stand for Families |
| City Bridge Foundation | 08/07/2020 | £113k | Grant to We Stand for Families |
| The National Lottery Community Fund | 12/12/2019 | £475k | MOSAC National Plan: Supporting 5,000 families affected by child sexual abuse |
| The National Lottery Community Fund | 18/11/2015 | £500k | Safeguarding Children, Rebuilding Families |
| The National Lottery Community Fund | 07/03/2013 | £9k | From the Mouths of Mothers |
| The National Lottery Community Fund | 15/06/2011 | £400k | Building Safer Communities |
| The National Lottery Community Fund | 13/02/2008 | £194k | The Family Safety Project |
Funders of similar charities
| Funder | Similar charities funded | Amount to them |
|---|---|---|
| THE YOUTH ENDOWMENT FUND CHARITABLE TRUST | 1 | £382k |
| IMPETUS - THE PRIVATE EQUITY FOUNDATION | 1 | £382k |
| THE STEVE MORGAN FOUNDATION | 1 | £115k |
| GLOBAL DIALOGUE | 1 | £57k |
| AQUILA FAMILY CHARITABLE TRUST | 1 | £50k |
| THE TONY AND SHEELAGH WILLIAMS CHARITABLE FOUNDATION | 1 | £50k |
| WILLIAM ADLINGTON CADBURY CHARITABLE TRUST | 1 | £20k |
| THE BARBARA WARD CHILDREN'S FOUNDATION | 1 | £18k |
Charities like this
- Standing Together Against Domestic Abuse
- FOUNDATIONS: SUPPORTING FAMILIES
- SPACE
- CHESHIRE WITHOUT ABUSE
- AYLESBURY WOMEN'S AID
- WEST MERCIA RAPE AND SEXUAL ABUSE SUPPORT CENTRE
Side by side with its peers
| Charity | Income | Top pay band | Staff >£60k | Reserves vs policy | Fundraising cost | Going concern |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| We Stand with Families | £354k | — | 0 | below | — | no doubt |
| Standing Together Against Domestic Abuse | £4.4m | £70,001 - £80,000 | — | unclear | — | no doubt |
| FOUNDATIONS: SUPPORTING FAMILIES | £336k | — | 0 | above | — | no doubt |
| SPACE | £256k | — | 0 | below | — | no doubt |
| CHESHIRE WITHOUT ABUSE | £2.3m | £67,185 | — | within | — | noted |
| AYLESBURY WOMEN'S AID | £1.1m | £60,001 - £70,000 | 1 | above | — | no doubt |